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So here I am, heading towards my the first anniversary of my Craniotomy, a time for celebration I guess; but I find myself feeling very reflective and also feeling a bit of a fraud. I continue to read the battles of fellow Brain Tumour Warriors on Facebook and feel guilty that I feel so well at the moment.
I am of course immensely grateful that I have fully recovered from my operation to debulk Gary my Glioma, I definitely feel a bit of an imposter when telling my story because thankfully (for now at least) it has run out of steam.
A good friend of mine, on a recent evening out for dinner, asked how I was and it took him back when I announced that my Tumour is incurable and in that moment my feeling of being an imposter disappeared. I reminded myself that I am not cured, I am temporarily fixed so that I can continue my life but I have guilt when reading about those who have passed and those now living with disability because of their tumour, surgery or both.
So I now need to go back to the teachings of the stoics and find the gratitude for my good fortune and not feel that it came at someone else’s expense.
As we come up to my Craniversary on December 20th, I need to remember what my wife and I have been through. We lost Mum in Law suddenly to Diverticulitis just over two weeks following my operation.
Andrea had to park me to the side slightly whilst dealing with her grief and the practical issues that have to be sorted after a death in the family.
In addition just as funeral preparations began I had to go back into hospital due to an infection in my operation scar. This turned out to be quite good timing as I was cared for, fed and pampered by the amazing team on Ward 21 at Leeds General Infirmary, so I was suddenly not my wife’s immediate concern.
I am running 5k three times a week now and whilst I can’t beat my PB of 33 mins, I am getting slightly faster and can constantly get a 34 minute 5K. Brain fog has completely gone and I am able to do little bits of Copywriting again and other freelance projects.
I recently did some telemarketing into the Netherlands but I suffered a short burst of anxiety and mild panic attacks, so had to stop the calling. Thankfully they have passed now but I guess that they were part of my recovery.
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I should get my driving licence back in the next few weeks and I think having that independence back will complete my personality refurbishment. I will try and stop this odd feeling of not really being a Tumour sufferer and carry on trying to offer my support wherever I can to other Tumour Warriors as they start their battle.
Stu x
The Brain Tumour charity has been a great help to me since my diagnosis. They have a podcast which is always of interest to people with tumours and their families and also have the ‘Brian App’ ( yep that is spelt correctly, it is ‘Brian’) which offers advice and the ability to track your symptoms, appointments and treatments.
My Brainstem Playlist.
Since my diagnosis I have found myself looking at life differently including reflecting on my past life. Music has always been important to me so I decided to put together a playlist that includes songs that I love, songs that remind me of places and times in my life, and tracks that I have discovered more recently that help me to keep positive. I hope it’s something that you might enjoy too and always play in ‘Shuffle’ mode.